Glossary for a Miscarriage

Emily Dyer Barker

ANNOUNCE

What you remember about your grandma’s house is the pinwheels. She put so many along her sidewalk—between the grass and the concrete. Such shining. Spinning. Mesmerize—Memorize. Did you miss something? Did you forget?


AUSCULTATION

They say it’s not possible to photograph the totality of a solar eclipse in any meaningful way. There are too many magnetic ribbons. One frame is not enough. The naked eye cannot be replaced.


BATH

—gentle gentle.


BIRTHDAY

For a long time, you will know the ages of your friends’ sons and daughters. The one born three months before. The one born two weeks after.


BLASTOCYST

At the beach you made castles with an equal mixture sand and water. You know the feeling of the good mud sliding through the inside of your fist. How do you say it? You know if it’s too thin. Or if it’s too thick, it doesn’t work. When it’s just right: the wet mud: look to the northwest—the moon’s shadow approaching
thirty miles per minute—at first looming low on the horizon, deep gray with strange slivers—red and orange: driving through a desert into a herd of storm clouds: the rain, the smell—the lightning you saw hit a juniper bush: a round ball of light.


BODY

Pluto has not cleared the neighborhood yet—it continues hurtling through the solar system.


BOW

Think cotton, think pink and spotted, think bending over on the tile floor, knees to chin, curled, knotted, how bright, dark.


CERVIX

You can look at the sun during totality. It won’t hurt your eyes.


CLOT

Because the moon has a complicated topography, in the path of totality you may see phenomena called “Baily’s Beads” or the “Diamond Ring Effect.” These occur when the moon fully covers the sun and light escapes through the parts where the moon is slipping away.


COMPLETE

Once the bleeding starts, it can’t be stopped. It may take two weeks or longer for the contents of the uterus to pass. During the brief period of totality, the corona is revealed. This is best experienced with the naked eye. Totality may last as long as 7 minutes, though most eclipses are much shorter.


CONCEPTION

You’ll hear the sound of silk filling with air. A satisfying snap and so much pull towards the sky. A different kind of gravity. A different kind of bright.


CRAMPS

The bottom of the ocean. Almost empty.


CURETTE

There’s a hole. A blank space. A circle. A space to cleanse. Go—wash yourself seven times in the river.


D&C

No one tells you at 3:00 a.m. you’ll feel attachment slide out of your own body. You will not know this is possible. You will think you shouldn’t be sitting on a toilet. It’s the middle of the night. No one has time to tell you whether or not there are cemeteries that will bury these bodies.


EMBRYO

Another beginning. You are about to turn ten years old. Spinning on the hard, wood floor of the kitchen in your house. Your dad puts his hand on your head. He says, “Happy birthday—you’re a decade old.”


EXPEL

It can be like this: spraying down a horse with Avon Skin-So-Soft. It helps with the flies, the instructor says. The horse is so tall, muscles rippling and jittering. The coat smooth when you brush the hair this way—but so difficult the other way. Smell of mud from horse urine and dirt, like planting marigolds on a Saturday morning with your sisters, your brother close by. The dirt in your family’s yard has too much clay in it—the manure helps. But here, there is hay everywhere, and a horse in the next stall, watching you. People are arriving for the next lesson. A dog barks in the distance. It’s cold, the night air dark. You can see so many stars. It is you all alone in a bathroom with some towels. A book to read. While you wait. You will have to flush the toilet while your husband sleeps.


FEVER

This flesh happened.


GRIEF

Places where you would prefer for this to happen: A river. A lake. An ocean. Any body of water not contained by ceramics, plastic, or cement. A place with no pipes. Or a place with a deer, a fox, a cow, a sheep. Speechless witnesses.


HEARTBEAT

Horizon line at dusk: purple sky, blue dirt.


HEAVY BLEEDING

Fast. So fast.


LOSS

The moon’s shadow is only a dot. Its path of totality a mere 70 miles wide—and always sliding off the surface of the earth, the bodies moving so quickly in separate directions.


LULLABY

You’re a little teapot short and stout, here is your handle, here is your spout. When you hear me whistle something something, tip me over and pour me out.


MEMBRANES

When the moon crosses in front of the sun, you’ll see the glitter.


NULLIPARA

At first, like a pinata—it’s fun to try to hit it with the bat. There are some good thunk-ing sounds. There are some small pieces of candy. But, then a dead horse in the sky. Bright star!—you can’t stop swinging. There is so much tissue paper.


PLACENTA

Hot air balloons lift of from a field by your house. So much muscle needed to keep them near the ground. Near enough for the passengers to climb in their baskets—celebrating so many things.


PREGNANCY TEST

You made the pinhole camera with tin foil, stiff sheets of paper, a cardboard box that came in the mail. It was difficult to only look at the ground.


PRIMIGRAVIDA

There were so many girls dressed in shiny light lavender walking around the gym floor. Each one with a partner dressed in a tux. It’s a party for your best friend. She’s not Catholic, and she’s not actually going to get married—but she is fifteen. How do you spell “festivity”? How do you spell dancing? How do you spell jumping up and down to a song that sounds like “Cotton-Eyed Joe”? How do you spell the name of the time when everything was a first?


RITUAL

After making a wish, blow out a candle.


SHOWER

Silk, silk, silk, silk, silk—


TISSUE

It is not just red, but all the dark colors of the rainbow. Purple. Blue. Not part of you, but something you are folding and crinkling into a bloom your teacher will hang from the ceiling for the party. The paper, unfolded, translucent—you can see so much through it—the window, the lightness of sky.


UMBILICAL CORD

A blood of stars a pilgrim named “la Vía Láctea.” (The darkest shrine the moon casts on Earth. You can follow the way over several months. There are many resting spots).


UTERUS

Pear! Sweet and cold. Eat it at noon.


ZYGOTE

The envelope is closed.

流产词汇表

Xiaoyan Fu

宣布

当你忆起祖母的房子,你会想起小风车。她在道旁放了那么多小风车——在草地和水泥墙之间。闪啊闪。转啊转。令人着迷——令人难忘。你是不是漏了什么?你是不是忘了?

 

听诊

据说,摄影无论如何都不可能拍到日食的全貌。磁条太多。一个画幅装不下。肉眼无可取代。

 

洗澡

——轻点,轻点。

 

生日

有很长一段时间,你将记得朋友们子女的年纪。三个月之前出生的那个。两周之后出生的那个。

 

胚泡

你在沙滩上堆城堡,一半沙,一半水。你知道泥浆从掌心滑过的感觉。你怎么说的来着?你知道它是不是太稀了。或者太稠了,那样不行。当它恰到好处的时候:湿润的泥巴:望向西北——月亮的影子在靠近,每分钟三十英里——起初在地平线上若隐若现,深灰色中夹杂着奇异的碎丝——红色和橙色:穿过沙漠,进入一大片暴雨云:那雨水,那气味——你看见那道闪电击中了杜松树丛:一个圆圆的光球。

 

身体

冥王星还没有清理邻近区域——它继续在太阳系中横冲直撞。

 

想想棉布,想想粉色和斑点,想想弯腰趴在瓷砖地上,膝盖顶着下巴,蜷曲,扭结,多么明亮,多么黑暗。

 

子宫颈

你可以在日全食的时候看太阳。那样不伤眼睛。

 

血块

由于月球地形复杂,所以在日全食的过程中,你可能会看到“贝利珠”或“钻石环效应”。当月亮与太阳完全重叠时,光线会从月亮没有挡住的地方漏出来,这些现象就此产生。

 

完成

一旦开始流血,它就止不住了。子宫内的东西可能需要两周或更长时间才能排出。在短暂的日全食期间,日冕会出现。用肉眼能达到最佳观测效果。日全食最长可能持续7分钟,不过大多数日食要短得多。

 

受孕

你会听到四周充满丝绸的声音。还有令人满意的“啪嗒”一声,以及来自天空方向的巨大拉力。一种不同的引力。一种不同的光明。

 

腹部绞痛

海底。几乎空空如也。

 

刮宫

那里有个洞。一片空白。一个圆。一个需要净化的场所。去吧——在河里清洗自己七次。

 

扩宫与刮宫术

没有人告诉你,你会在凌晨三点,感觉到附着物从自己的身体里流出来。你不会知道还有这种可能。你会觉得你不应该坐在马桶上。现在是半夜。没有人有空告诉你,会不会有墓地可以埋葬这些尸体。

 

胚胎

另一个开始。你快满十岁了。在你家厨房里坚硬的木地板上转圈。你爸爸将手放在你的头上。他说,“生日快乐——你十岁了。”

 

排出

它就像在一匹马身上喷雅芳润肤油[1]这有助于赶走苍蝇,指导者说。那匹马好高,肌肉起伏抖动。你往一个方向梳毛时,皮毛很顺滑——但反过来就很难梳。马尿和泥土的味道,就像周六的早晨,你和姐妹们一起种金盏花,而你的兄弟在不远处。你家院子里的泥里有太多土块——有肥料的原因。但在这里,到处都是干草,还有一匹马在旁边的马厩里看着你。人们来上下一节课了。一只狗在远处吠叫。天气很冷,夜晚的空气很暗。你可以看到好多星星。浴室里只有你一个人和几条毛巾。一本书。在你等待的时候读。你不得不在丈夫睡觉的时候冲马桶。

 

发烧

这块肉发生了。

 

悲痛

你更希望这件事在这些地方发生:江河。湖泊。海洋。任何没有被陶瓷、塑料、水泥包裹的水体。一个没有管道的地方。或者一个有鹿、狐狸、奶牛、绵羊的地方。无言的见证者。

 

心跳

黄昏时的地平线:紫色的天空,蓝色的泥土。

 

大出血

快。如此之快。

 

失去

月亮的影子只是一个点。它的全食路径不过70英里宽——而且总是从地球表面滑过,两个天体如此快速地分道扬镳。

 

摇篮曲

你是小小茶壶矮又胖,这是你的把手,这是你的嘴。当你听到我呜呜叫,提起我,倒杯水。

 

当月亮从太阳前面经过,你会看到闪光。

 

未产妇

起初,就像皮纳塔——试着用球棒打它很有趣。敲在上面砰砰响。小小的糖果掉下来。然而,接着就是一匹死马悬在空中。星星闪亮!——你不能停止挥舞。绉纸条好多好多。

 

胎盘

热气球从你家旁边的空地上升空。让它们靠近地面要费好多力气。近到足以让乘客爬进篮子里——庆祝好多事情。

 

验孕

你用锡纸、硬纸片和邮寄来的纸板箱制作了针孔相机。只看地面有些困难。

 

初孕妇

好多女孩穿着闪亮的淡紫色衣服,在健身房式的地面上走来走去。每个人都有一个身着燕尾服的伴侣。这场派对是为你最好的朋友开的。她不是天主教徒,她其实也不准备结婚——不过她15岁。“festivity(庆祝活动)”怎么写?舞蹈怎么写?跟着一首听起来像《棉眼乔(Cotton-Eyed Joe)》[2]的歌上蹿下跳怎么写?一切都是第一次,那种时候叫什么名字,怎么写?

 

仪式

许完一个愿望,就吹灭一支蜡烛。

 

淋浴

绸,绸,绸,绸,绸——

 

薄纸

它不仅仅是红色,而是彩虹中所有的深色。紫色。蓝色。不是你的一部分,而是你正在折叠、捏皱成花朵的东西,开派对时老师会挂在天花板上的那种花。那张纸,未经折叠,半透明——透过它,你可以看到好多东西——窗,天光。

 

脐带

一条血脉,来自被一位朝圣者命名为“la Vía Láctea(银河)的星星们。(月亮在地球上投下的最黑暗的朝圣地。你可以沿着那条路走上几个月。路上有很多休息的地方。)

 

子宫

梨子!又甜又凉。中午吃。

 

受精卵

信封合上了。


 


[1]译者注:雅芳出品的Skin-so-Soft润肤油据说有驱散蚊虫的效果。

[2]译者注:Cotton-Eyed Joe是一首美国乡村民谣,也经常作为舞蹈伴奏出现。

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